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Still Figuring It Out? It's Ok!

    In your 20s, it’s common to have a lot of plans and dreams for the future. As kids, many of us imagined to be a doctor, an astronaut or an engineer but in real we have landed up in something different. As we grow, our goals naturally evolve. Remember those times you thought you'd have everything figured out by 25? Maybe you have settled in a career, a partner, or a specific lifestyle. Yet here you are, possibly still navigating the twists and turns of adulthood. That’s perfectly ok! As we get old, our priorities shift. A bike that once seemed like the ultimate goal might now feel small compared to owning a car. Relationships, career paths, and dreams can all change too. Some years back you might be thinking about to get married to someone you love by the year of 25. But now your paths are different. Just because your friend owns a car or is getting married at the same age doesn’t mean you have to rush into those things too. What was once a timeline now becomes a journey a
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The hidden virtue of closed doors

In our information-saturated world, the urge to know everything can sometimes do more harm than good. There are moments when knowing less can actually protect our peace of mind and emotional well-being. Information can empower, but it can also overwhelm. Diving deep into every detail of life's complexities can uncover truths that are hard to handle, leaving us feeling sad and helpless. Simple examples in life- Consider finding out that your favourite food, which brings you joy and comfort is actually harmful. Imagine delving into a close friend's deepest secrets, only to find out they have been hiding a painful past or a significant betrayal. This knowledge could irreparably damage your relationship and cause emotional complexities. Picture a beautiful mountain range you love to visit. Discovering that the opposite side is barren. "Some doors should be kept closed to avoid getting hurt." There is wisdom in practicing selective ignorance. This doesn't m

The Threshold of Love: Understanding Emotional Limits

In the journey of love, we often encounter a delicate balance between giving chances and reaching a threshold. It's like walking on a tightrope, trying to understand and accommodate, until suddenly, we find ourselves at a breaking point. This phenomenon is not confined to romantic relationships alone but extends to various aspects of life where emotions are involved. Love, in its purest form, is boundless and enduring. It compels us to forgive, understand, and accept imperfections. However, there comes a point where even the most patient hearts reach their limit. It's the threshold where love meets self-respect and dignity. Imagine loving someone deeply, investing time, effort, and emotions into the relationship. You navigate through challenges, forgive mistakes, and believe in the power of love to conquer all. But beneath the surface, there's an invisible line, a threshold that defines our emotional capacity. As the days go by, if one feels taken for granted, i