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"The quality of your life is in direct proportion to the amount of uncertainty you can comfortably deal with" - Tonny Robbins         Steps to deal with uncertainty  ​ Accept   Not everything is in our hand, we can't control everything and when we realise that we can't control that situation we tend to run from reality. Instead of that we should make ourselves strong for new challenges, treat challenge as opportunity to do something new. Stay calm to cope with that situation.  "If uncertainty is unacceptable to you, it turns into fear. If it is perfectly acceptable, it turns into increased aliveness, alertness, and creativity.”                                                                     - Eckhart Tolle 2.      Express   When you try to run away from you...

.            Photo by Ryoji Iwata on unsplash     Life is a jigsaw puzzle  which you have to complete with adding one- one piece of your choices and decisions.   If the one piece is incorrect then it will ruin whole puzzle just like that if the one choice is wrong then it will affect your life. If your one piece is wrongly placed then you desperately find it out that why it's wrong? You look for options to complete that puzzle. Just like that try to look for options rather than regretting on your decision. And trust me, there are always options available but we can't see them with our naked eyes because our eyes are only covered with apathy and despair.  Your destiny is not predetermined, you make your destiny with your decisions. So take in consideration pros and cons of your decisions. There are numerous doors open  it's upon us on which to knock on, so choose it appropriately. And if one door is wrong then don't be sad, one...

Live in the moment Image by - Javier Allegue Barros On unsplash Living in the moment means to give 100% to the present activity and not worrying or stressing about future nor tangle in the past memories.  When you're not enjoying the present moment to the fullest, that time memories flashback in your mind and when you're not thinking in right direction, just making assumptions - not having base of reality , that time you start worrying about future.  Your thoughts are like vine, when you give a proper support to the vine it grows in right direction, just like that when you give a support of reality to your thoughts ,you think in right direction. If you don't give this support, your  mind will only float into imaginations and you will eventually lose the moment and at the next moment you will start regretting that. To stop this never ending cycle, the best option is to draw your all concentration to the present moment. “ Yesterday is histor...

Photo by Maddi Bazzocco  on unsplash "One day" and "day one" words seem similar but after interchanging them whole meaning changes.  We all have goals and dreams, to achieve them we make so many plans but, how many of us can really stick to that particular plan? After some days that plan become piece of paper.   The fact is that we all love to see mountain view but very few loves the journey to climb that mountain. We all aspire to be at highest position but very few of us start taking small steps immediately.  "Life is a series of baby steps" - Hoda kotb And it is very much important to not delay these steps.  These small steps will definitely help you-    Remove indolence Photo by Elizabeth Lies on unsplash There is nothing under the sun that you can't achieve. Run for your goal, if can't then walk, if you can't walk then crawl but the only rule to achieve success is to keep moving forward in all circumstances. All you need is little push. S...

  Photo by William Bout on unsplash   Whenever life is surrounded by different problems like natural calamities, lethal disease, heartbreak, loss of closed ones, failure, depression and your life is just messed up. At that time one thing you should never give up on is - HOPE . Wealth, fame, money all is mortal but hope is not! Hope is the foremost reason for survival. Hope is the lighthouse which gives direction to the life's ship which is lost in Ocean of sorrows. Hope can bloom the flower in barren land. While travelling in arid desert hope will show you mirage. Hope was imbibed from infancy on us. Initially we start crawling, then become ambitious to walk. To achieve that desire we try to walk, even though we're falling down, we get up again and try several times. Process of getting up is the hope. We don't loose hope and as a result we start walking and then running. The hope gives us happiness. If you want to rebuild yourself, hope is the main pillar.  Ho...

Words are the blessings to the humans, no other creature has the ability of expression of their thoughts, so choose your words wisely. It is boon for mankind to have the ability of expression. Words can effect or can affect. Words can shape your personality. Just by enlightening the world of the one whose life is full of  blackout you can be a ray of hope by giving moral support, assurance, trust & faith which is developed by your words. Your words can be light at the end of the tunnel. You can become a lighthouse to someone's lost ship in dark ocean.  Words should be used to heal not as a sword to wound hearts. Words can bring you closer to people or can break them apart from you. Words can draw people towards you or can repel. With the words your voice  also makes an  impact in positive/ negative way. So be calm and be humble. Remember that your words can be forgiven not forgotten. If your way of expression of thoughts is not correct enough it will lead to nega...

" Love yourself first and everything else falls into line "- Lucille Ball        In the journey of life so many migrants come and go. People around us are just to support us, encourage us and sometimes they let you down. The only companion who will never leave your side in that journey, who will stay forever and always with you is ' YOURSELF '. So start loving yourself.        When your bright white t-shirt have small stain you pay attention to that small thing. Just like that when you sit infront of the mirror you pay attention to your flaws - "my hairs are so freezy, my eyes are not that attractive, I am so short" this type of thoughts come into your mind. Just don't think about this, don't look at your blemishes. Just smile and look at that cute dimple on cheeks who's emphasizing that you're the most beautiful.         Learn to love the person looking back at you in the mirror unconditionally. Learn to love thing...